So what can a family facing such a backlog do to move forward with their process of separation or amendment to custody arrangements? Fortunately, there are some options.
One clear path forward is mediation. Unlike what many people think, mediation is not an attempt to reconcile a relationship. On the contrary, it is the use of a neutral third party to facilitate the divorce process. Mediation is only an option when the separating couple has an amicable relationship. Because mediation requires that both parties come to full agreement on the separation of assets and other prudent aspects of the divorce, there must be an active collaboration by both parties to make the mediation swift. If the couple has a history of domestic abuse or trauma, it is unlikely that mediation is the appropriate way forward, as unresolved emotional barricades may reduce the trust and collaboration necessary for a functioning mediation process.
Generally speaking, the cost of mediation is cheaper than litigation. One of the main reasons for this is that separating couples who can come together to terminate the marriage business spare themselves quite a bit of money in legal fees.
Still, another option for couples seeking to resolve disputes in the pandemic era swiftly is to engage in the process of collaborative family law. Like mediation, collaborative law is founded on the teamwork of the couple and their legal representation. The collaborative law process relies on the fundamental agreement that both parties will stay in the goal-oriented process until a resolution is found, without pulling out and turning to litigation. If one of the people leaves the collaborative process, they must seek new counsel to return to the process. This essentially means starting over the process. Such a precedent is put in place because it hammers home the agreement that the collaborative family law process’s essential foundation is staying at the table when things get tough. Another element of collaborative family law is that the resolution team generally includes a financial expert and a mental health expert to provide appropriate facilitation.
At The Montanari Law Group, our divorce attorneys are experienced in providing our clients across Wayne, Paterson, Clifton, West Milford, Woodland Park, Little Falls, and Passaic County the guidance they need to obtain a divorce or resolve their family disputes in these trying times.
To schedule a confidential consultation with a team member today regarding your case, please fill out our online form or call our Little Falls office at (973) 233-4396 today.
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